Friday, February 22, 2013

Take Responsibility For Your Own Actions

By: Tyshaun Taylor

Some readers may get upset after this but, the truth can set you free. Don't blame others no matter what. Take control and understand that when dealing with people it takes 2 or more depending on the situation.

Be real with yourself. The first step to getting somewhere in life is to look in the mirror and realize who you are. Know that your flaws are YOURS. No one else's. Take the time to understand that you have to be responsible when life doesn't go your way.

Ex.
I'm pretty sure President Obama never looked a camera in the eye and blamed you for the economy and social status of this country. He takes his responsibility for the things he cannot accomplish.

Life is going to spit at you, kick you, life may even take a shot at you. You have to be ready. Blaming everyone else for something you should have prepared for is a big NO. If your partner decides to cheat, before you evaluate it dig deep into you. Not saying that the actions of others are always justifiable, but if you allow it you deserve it. You are allowed to make you own choice in life. Put his or her in their place. Let them feel the wrath of your hurt. Don't act out and jeopardize your lifestyle, just approach the situation and let them know that you are aware and that they have options. If you don't do such thing how will they ever know that you are hurt?

This is exactly what I consider acting responsibly.

In life people are going to blame you, slander your name. They may even wait for you to turn your back so that they can stab you in it.

I have been a victim of back stabbing. It's a painful metaphor when you experience it. I had a family member that I did everything with. We washed our cars together, we chased the same girls. Some days we would even dressed a like. I never in a million years thought that this friend would be my downfall in life. For his own selfish reasons tried to connect with an ex that still had feelings for me. Knowing that I moved on in life he still chose to give her my personal information and allow her to stalk my every move in return for hopes of maybe an encounter. Not really sure of his motive. It took me a year to put the pieces together. So blinded by my love for this cousin, I couldn't see that he was the mastermind behind my once damaged relationship.

Long story short I figured it out and when I did it didn't matter. I gained more than he did. He lost his family and mines grew ten fold. I allowed my past to not to effect my future and most important I acted responsibly. It was partially my fault that I allowed something like this to go on in my life. Not being able to understand why, it was just time for me to make a one way departure from this life long friendship. My action was a powerful one. I confronted and left it in the rear view.

I'm not sure what your story is like, you at even have a similar one, but know this one thing. Don't allow people to get you out of character. You made the risk to connect and no matter what you have to act responsibly when something arises in that friendship, relationship or even dealing with a co worker. You decisions can effect you if you don't realize that the cause is partially your fault.

"If you allow it, swallow it"
- Tyshaun Taylor-

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

I'm No Different Than You: The Day My Life Transformed

I am just as human as you. I don't spend time worrying about the materials in life. I grow from the changes that life throws my direction.

On a numerous of occasions I almost lost everything chasing the things that didn't fulfill my life. Ever been faced with almost having no where to live? Knowing that you had a closet full of expensive clothing and a car that you would give your last to parked in your driveway. That was me June of 2011. One month before my youngest child was born. No job and depressed life had finally reached rock bottom. So ambitious working in a marketplace that is threatened by my work ethic. I had to learn how to become the rock in my life. Finding a job was never hard. I could get a pink slip today and fill out a W-4 by the end of the week. Work wasn't my issue. Rules and regulations were my downfall. I hated feeling like a slave. Working in an at will workplace.

Just before I moved in my new home in September of 2011 I was introduced to something that would forever change my life. A health and wellness product that would take me from groggy to high on life. The first day I tried the product, I instantly was rejuvenated with energy like no other. I had wings. Nothing like the garbage you find in a grocery beverage aisle, but something so amazing it took me on a journey. I told me whole family about this product. Being 225lbs at the time, what i used to do wasn't healthy for my once 140lb body. I now had the power. A three step beverage system that gave me instant results.

2 weeks into this product I became a distributor. So excited by the product I wanted to take a risk on the opportunity side. I was quite the risk. I made nothing in this business. So excited for the results I came to learn that the traditional methods of direct sales no longer worked in this 30 plus year old company. This company was outdated and the only way for me to make it would be to become a club owner. I would have to have a nutrition club where people would come to consume the product. I didn't want to become an employee of this opportunity. I want to be able to leverage time and money. I wouldn't be able to do this with 9 to 5 business hours. I also joined a time that was great for the moment. Despite the language barrier I went all in. After awhile I learned that their motive was money. They didn't have the same passion results as they did their wallets. That turned me off about this opportunity. The 80% that was supposed to come from a strong team wasn't displayed.

After that journey I didn't give up. I saw the numbers in the product so I continued to reach for new opportunities. With a mind that was positive from my last adventure I was sure to continue my quest. I then found it in Motor Club of America. A company with a low start up cost and immediate return. I went from relying on products to selling something that we all need. Not only is is easy, it pays out weekly. It feels good to earn and get paid weekly as oppose to monthly.

This business opportunity is very lucrative. Learning how to go out and use the free marketing tools to become great is something that I love most. There is so much support for this opportunity. There are no pills, shakes and cold calling. People are driving by me everyday. New drivers are ripping up the pavement daily. I now can offer a service that will give drivers peace of mind at work, at home or at play. How sweet is that?

Motor Club of America is rated better than AAA. Offering over $150,000. You will be pleased to know that individuals are earning $100k in less than a year in this business. Be sure to check out www.getcoveredwithmca.tk. You can me myself Tyshaun Taylor at 8607296367 or email tybelievesinyou@gmail.com

This one opportunity you do not want to miss out on.

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Every Soul Has A Testimony: What's Your Purpose For Living?

By: Tyshaun Taylor

Life has challenges. Should we run from them hoping that they go away? Should we hide from what is really going on in our surroundings? Why does life put YOU to the test?

Some people wake up daily and never understand how they should stand up to beliefs. Walking through life hurt or beat up from the past. They might even be scared by the present. This is the common side effect for a punished future. Everyday life happens. Everyday a baby is born, that first breath of air is someone's last. Everyday a woman is beaten by the man that "loves" her. Do we stop living? Should we live in fear? It's a hard thing to swallow but you're life situation can be a great healing tool if you look up. (Yes, he is always there.)

A testimony is a "test." An exam of life's knowledge and an understanding that you are here to fulfill something. You are put here with a duty. Everyone has a calling. It is up to you to find out who you are? You are not an idiot because you flunked a test. You are not a hoe because you are open about your sexual activity. Your not a loser because your not a jock or a popular kid in school. Your are only misled. You are a impaired by your peers. It's time for you to separate yourself from the "world" and fine tune who you are. Be that grand piano in a room. Someone that everyone can admire but not all can play. Have a heart that beats to sound of a harp. Be that someone that shares a melody that the like minded will follow.

Life has so much to offer. The best things in life are free .99. Do you remember that first time you rode your bike and made it to the end of the driveway without falling? You didn't give up, did you? Or that first time your brought home an A+ paper. I bet that feeling made you warm inside and want to post it on the fridge. Life offers things to you everyday. We just have to be optimistic. Stop looking in the glass as if it were half empty. Life will pass you by if you spend too much time worrying and living in fear.

If your an adult and you have debt, why be scared to take risk? You already made the biggest risk of shutting down financial opportunities for your future. You already took the time to splurge on something that is borrowed. It's very funny how the world will apply for a loan and risk everyone else's finances, but will never take a chance on their own. One thing I have grown to learn is that you cherish that hard earned buck at the end of a hard week. Why not invest it? All you have to do is talk. Something you have been doing since the age of two. The only risk you take is letting your time slip through your hands.

If your an adult in a broken relationship, why be nervous about confronting your partner? You took the biggest risk already. You let down that wall to open your heart. So feel free to guard it when needed. Your heart is yours. It is how you managed to still be here. If you have a pulse you have a right. No man or woman should be allowed to endure pain caused by a partner or spouse. Just think of it this way. When you go, your going by yourself preserve your right to be happy. Its just that simple.

If your upset about something in life look it right in the face and give it a piece of your mind. This is your test. Don't let anyone copy or cheat off of your test. Life's obstacles are the PSAT's to your future and success. You can study your past and present to try not to get caught up in it. Be fearless when facing a challenge. Never stop achieving because you're afraid of the outcome. Your not sure if your going to wake up tomorrow so live today. You may not be able to grow in height but in the mind you can flourish.

Sunday, February 3, 2013

The Power Of Praising People

One of the keys to success is to have successful relationships. We are not islands and we don't get to the top by ourselves.
by Chris Widener

TheNetworkMarketingMagazine.

One of the keys to success is to have successful relationships. We are not islands and we don't get to the top by ourselves. And one of the key ways to grow successful in our relationships is to be "life-giving" people to others.

Every person we meet, we either give life to or take life from. You know what I mean. There are people who encourage you and when you are done being with them you feel built up. Then there are others who you feel torn down by. Successful people are people who have mastered the art of building others up.

One of the ways we build people up is to praise them. There is power in praising people!

Something begins to happen in them, in you, and in your relationship when you praise someone. Remember a time when someone told you something about yourself in a praising manner? It was great, wasn't it? You probably liked that person more after they praised you, didn't you?

Now I am not talking about praising people for the sake of praising people. I am talking about honestly looking for and praising positive character traits and action of others around you. Don't lie to people. If they have done something wrong, correct it, but when they do something right, Praise it!

With that said, here are benefits of and ways to start praising people.

Benefits

Your relationship grows.
Life is about relationships. Family relationships, friends, and co-workers. When we begin to praise people for their positive aspects, our relationships grow. It puts them, and us, on the fast track.

Your leadership and influence grows.
Who is going to have greater leadership and influence capacity in the lives of their followers, the one who tears down or the one who builds up?

Stronger relationships and loyalty.
When the person is appreciated and praised, they become fiercely loyal, because they know that you care for them, love them, and appreciate them. This will take you to success.

Happier, more fulfilled people.
I truly believe it is our job to build others up and that they need it. It is a good thing, in and of itself to invest in the lives of others by praising and encouraging them. Even if we never get anything in return, it is the right thing to do to build up other people. Someone else will always come along to tear them down; the successful person will instill in them the power of praise!

Some ways to praise

Character traits.
Is there someone you know who is joyful? Hard- working? Honest? Then let them know how much you appreciate that in them. You can do it with a word or a card, or a phone call. Say something like this, "You know Tom, I think it is great that you are such a hard- worker. It seems like you are always the first one here and the last one to leave. You really set a good example and I want you to know how much I appreciate that." Simple!

Action.
Same idea as above. "Sue, I don't know if anybody else has told you this, but your work on the Johnson account was excellent. You have a wonderful ability to communicate the vision of the project and that helps all of the rest of us out in our roles and tasks. Thanks for that. It is greatly appreciated."

Other ways you can show praise and appreciation is with a card, a gift, or time off from work. Make it your goal to praise at least five people a day. If you can, praise ten people a day. Or perhaps you can try to praise everyone you come in contact with. It will take work but it is possible. It just takes discipline and a little work.

Any way you cut it though, there is power in praising people. First for them, then for you!

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Chris Widener is an example of how anyone can overcome any odds to achieve a successful life and help others achieve the same. Chris has overcome many obstacles... living through his father dying suddenly when he was four, being sent away from his family to live with relatives at age nine and becoming involved with drugs and alcohol by the age of twelve. Chris overcame those obstacles and
has for the last ten years worked with some of the most financially successful families in America, helping them to achieve both personally and professionally. Now he can do the same for you!


One of the key ways to grow successful in our relationships is to be "life-giving" people to others.

Saturday, February 2, 2013

The Marketing World Is Heading For Suicide

 I wrote an email to some of my subscribers this week about how I thought that Internet marketing was essentially broken. Several things have happened over the past few weeks that have made me take a long look at the IM business (Again!) and once again I don’t like what I see. It seems that a lot of marketers are set on a path of self destruction.

First let me preface this by saying that I love Internet marketing, I love the fact that I can sit at my desk have an idea, create something and earn money. I love that I can find a great product write a review and make commission. I love that I can have an idea for a website and within an hour have a site up and ready to make sales.
 

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